Tagged “BDSM”

Regardless of how you identify, it's all about enjoying yourself and actively participating with your partner(s).

As I write this article, a naked man is cleaning my house. His kink is providing service simply for the pleasure of doing so. Yet, that’s not what this article is about. I mention it because he and I often talk kink while he cleans. This time, it came up that he doesn’t mention his kinks to the women he dates.

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Many porn movies feature aspects of BDSM, which for ones that do not know is short for Bondage, Dominance, Sadism and Masochism. There's many levels of BDSM, some mild, others pretty far out there. The recent movie Fifty Shades Of Grey introduced the masses to BDSM. Some liked it, some didn't feel it accurately portrayed what they see as BDSM in their personal relationships that practice it. Older ones may recall Nine and a Half Weeks in the 1980's, which had a similar feel to it and introduced ones to things like blindfolds, light bondage, ice play and dominance and submission and spanking. These can be fun activities even the most vanilla of couples can explore and enjoy.

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